
It was the best of weekends, it was the worst of weekends, it was the age of frantic consumption, it was the age of parsimony, it was the epoch of bedazzlement, it was the epoch of befuddled dismay, it was the sojourn of inspiration, it was the sojourn of exhaustion.
And if I haven’t lost you already with my attempt to capture what it is like for me to wander around downtown Seattle for a few days, then think about this: I think I am slowing losing all ability to be a city person.
I can spend hours at Pike’s Market and another few geeking out on brands in Seattle’s downtown shopping district. I can confront myself with the shock of the new at the Seattle Art Museum in almost-empty galleries at 9:00 p.m. on a Friday night. I can walk on the waterfront and romp in the grass of Volunteer Park on a day so hot it seared my flesh. But at the end of the day, I would really rather be at home in my garden in Salem.
Also, I discovered that Seattle, despite being among the most tech-forward of American cities and having a Twitter presence to rival the Israeli Army, doesn’t respond as gleefully to Twitter-based requests for restaurant and tourist tips. I had more response to my shout outs in Park City, UT than I had there… On my personal travel-by-Twitter scale, it gets a 2/10.
So all in all, our trip Seattle last week for a professional conference and to visit our my brother-in-law Steven and his gal Jessica got me thinking about what got lost when I moved out of a big city (Munich, D.C.), and what might just be gained.
I could post a whole list here expounding the virtues and drawbacks of said cities, but to me, Seattle’s lingering after-effects are two:
1.) Nice haircuts - Working from home, and living in Salem, I kinda miss having to look sharp and move quickly. My pocketbook doesn’t look back fondly on my days as a short-haired upstart PR professional/book editor, but when I see a woman, early 30s, hair shaped like Brancusi himself had done the cutting, my heart gets a little sore. Being around attractive, upwardly mobile people who are in a hurry while I am on vacation tends to make me über-competitive. I saw one woman who looked so good I felt like I had to run home and crank out a screenplay. Is that odd? Perhaps it is not the haircuts themselves but the sense of teeming competition — all those people! And what are you doing with your life!?
2.) Hefty prices – We paid $3.75 a piece for two beautiful but utterly tasteless goat cheese and spinach brioches at a sexy little bakery called Sugar, just around the corner from Steven and Jessica’s apartments. Sadly, this was just one in a string of disappointing food experiences that were only assuaged by one great meal at Brouwer’s Cafe in Fremont.

By the way, the top image is of Adam giving a demonstration at Seattle’s Top Pot, known for their doughnuts, on how NOT to drink coffee. Sadly, I’m pregnant and off coffee for a while. I’m pretty sure that my affinity for Seattle will return post haste as soon as I am living on the stuff again myself.


Your words hit home, as they often do. I’ve never really BEEN a city girl — but as I settle into 30 something-ness, I find that my desire to be one is dwindling. A trip to Portland/Seattle/Chicgo will excite me… but within about 24 hours I’m sick and tired of the assholes, the traffic, the pretention, the prices…
I just want to go home.
But I know that energy and competativeness you speak of. I feel it in airports, when I find myself traveling with the business crowd. Or when meandering and dining in hip productive areas. I’ve often wondered if I haven’t missed something by planting myself directly into one of those areas… or if I’ve been smart to not do so.
Huh.
I was born in Salem, and aside from some overseas duty stations, I’ve lived most my life here.
Back around 2000 I was offered a job in Bellevue and I thought this was opportunity coming as close as it gets. I had always felt that I was too big for this town (Salem) and so I took the job and moved to Kirkland and worked in Bellevue.
Wasn’t long before I realized that I wasn’t a city person. Echoing what Amy said, I quickly got tired of the traffic, the assholes, the pretention and the lines for EVERYTHING!!! Not to mention I needed mapquest everywhere I went.
So now I’m back in Salem and I’m content.
I’m definitely digging on the Sweet Spot of populations between 75,000-150,000. Seattle’s great, but honestly, in the Seattle / PDX battle for coolness, I much prefer Portland as a destination.